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A bit of relief……..

Last night was pretty nice. I finally got to take something for my back. Some pain killers,muscle relaxers and motrin. I was out by 7:30pm. I haven’t taken anything for my back for a really long time. I slept on the couch and at some point I ended up with ER draped across my legs. …

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Somethings Up With Gavin

Something is going on with Gavin. He’s really off today and that’s saying something. Today was the first day of summer break. All I can say is 1 down 103 to go. I’ll be honest I’m not looking forward to this summer. We are getting Gavin in to see the doc’s again because he is …

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Autism and Sexuality

Gavin is really starting to struggle. He seems to have significantly regressed with no sign of slowing down. The frustrating part is that he could be playing us. He is extremely manipulative. Lizze went to the school to pick up Gavin today and chat with the principle. While they were talking Gavin very inappropriately put …

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It Rained……..Inside

So this morning it rained. I happen to look behind our tv and I noticed water dripping inside the window. The storm windows were closed cause the air was on. I looked again and the windows had actually filled with water. When I open the inside window the water poured out onto the floor. The …

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Perspective: From the heart of a special needs father……

Perspective: From the heart of a special needs father: You are lucky because you never use words like autism, spectrum, bipolar, sensory, anti-psychotic, manic or nonverbal in relation to your children and may not even know what they mean. I am all to familiar with them and wish I wasn’t. You are lucky because your …

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Autism has changed me

Autism is changing me. I have become very bitter and angry. I’m angry that I have lost my friends. I’m pissed off at the “family” that forced us to walk away. I’m angry at the “family” that walked away from us because they couldn’t hack it. I’m angry that my career is gone. I’m angry …

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