The boys will be going to dinner with their Mom and Grandma tonight.. They do every other Wednesday dinners and they fall on the weeks opposite of their every other Friday over-night stays with their Mom. 

It doesn’t give me a lot of time to myself but it is a tiny little break.

More importantly however, it’s a chance for them to spend some time with their Mom.  I’m not a bitter person and I believe it’s important crucial for the boys to have a happy and healthy relationship with their Mom. 

This is a far from ideal situation and one that I would have never chosen for myself and the kids. 

Some things however, are outside of one’s control and all you can do is find the positive, pick yourself up and keep moving forward…  ☺