I have to say that I think Gavin does things just screw with us. Like he gets some kind of sick pleasure out of driving us crazy. I only say this because it’s very obvious that he is choosing to do these things, like constantly repeat himself, attempting to pit Lizze and I against each other and ignoring Elliott Richard for so long that he starts to cry because Gavin has hurt his feelings.
Gavin is all over the map right now. One minute he is happy the next he is throwing a fit and the lying is getting to be to much. One more day is all we have to make it through.
we went through something similar not quite to your extent we do notice that the twins will try to pit us against each other, but we just stand firm with the what did Mommy or Daddy tell you approach. It was hard in the beginning but they seem to get no is going to be no from everyone. We are dealing with them trying to understand that I'm sorry doesn't work if you keep doing what you shouldn't be. That can be a pain in itself.