Helping my child with #Autism redefine perfect

Helping my child with #Autism redefine perfect

For dinner last night, we had homemade pizzas. The boys each made their own and did a fantastic job. 

I wanted to share their creations.  They each made theirs a little different.  Elliott put his peperoni on top of the cheese, while Emmett put his underneath the cheese.

When Emmett realized that his was different than Elliott’s, he panicked and had a meltdown.

In the end, he was okay with what he made.  He didn’t eat more than a bite but he was okay. I explained to him that his pizza was perfect because he made it all by himself. 

I told him that no one else could make a pizza quite the way he did.  That made his pizza very special.

Sometimes when dealing with a 4 year old perfectionist that has #Autism, you have to help them redefine the word perfect.




0 0 votes
Article Rating
Notify of

Yes, I would like to receive emails from The Autism Dad. Sign me up!

By submitting this form, you are consenting to receive marketing emails from: Business Name. You can revoke your consent to receive emails at any time by using the SafeUnsubscribe® link, found at the bottom of every email. Emails are serviced by Constant Contact

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

1 Comment
most voted
newest oldest
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments
E The Third Glance

Emmett, I put my pepperoni under the cheese too. Sometimes, I get really excited about the pepperoni and put it under AND over the cheese. It’s the best part!

Would love your thoughts, please comment.x