What would you do?

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I thought it might be interesting to do one of those What would you do things, like you see on TV. Basically, I’ll give you a situation and you share how you would handle it.

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I think it’s interesting that many people handle the same thing in many multitude of ways. There are no right or wrong answers here.

You’re walking through the grocery store and witness a parent physically hitting and yelling at their child.. You don’t know the whole story but are uncomfortable with what is happening. What would you do in this situation?



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fbhmom2two
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fbhmom2two

I have asked a distresed parent if I might be of some help and take action based on the response to that question.  My husband is less likely to get involved, calling it interference.  In one instance, the apparent ‘mom’ was actually the older sister of an uncooperative child ill-equipped to handle a rambunctious bundle of energy but determined to give her own mother a break in chaos at home.  We have since become great friends with this family and occasionally respite each other.  In the very few occasions I’ve seen a reaction that just seems/feels wrong, I get help… Read more »

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elizabethtaylor202

I used to work in retail in a large chain store. I had the opportunity on many occasions (being as I was in kids wear) to witness the frustration of moms on the edge of doing something they may regret. I am on of those types that just can’t keep my mouth shut. Seeing a parent with a child standing in a shopping cart or sitting on the edge. I’ve had to say something. I am unable to mind my own business when it comes to a child being mistreated. I am capable however of knowing when it’s overboard, and when it’s… Read more »

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chefaimee

If it’s a smack on the hand for negative reinforcement of a socially unacceptable behaviour or a scolding to make a point about safety (We do NOT hide from Mommy in the middle of clothing racks!) Then I let it go. I once told one of my siblings (NONE of whom should EVER have had children in the first place) that if he threatened his daughter with a belt again (trust me, it was very graphic and obviously not the first time), I would make certain his children were removed from the home. I think it’s entirely situational.

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2ysur2ysub

I would likely call the store manager.

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2ysur2ysub

I would call the store manager quickly, and go with him back to the scene. It’s better to have numbers with you than do it alone, especially when the parent is angry.  I saw an incident at Trader Joe’s (my hang out) where a kid was very rambunctious, destructively crashing into shelves and stacked items.  The mother grabbed and shook him. He was out of control, so I didn’t do anything.  Later, however, the kid was crying and just outright obnoxious — one of the clerks distracted him by telling him to  hunt for a whale in the store and… Read more »

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2ysur2ysub

I would call the store manager quickly, and go with him or her back to the scene. It’s better to have numbers with you when interceding, than do it alone, especially when the parent is angry.  I saw an incident at Trader Joe’s (my hang out) where a kid was very rambunctious, destructively crashing into shelves and stacked items with his miniature shopping cart.  The mother grabbed his arm and spun him around. I winced a bit, but he was out of control, so I didn’t do anything.  Later, however, the kid was crying and just outright obnoxious — one… Read more »

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this has actually happened once.  What I did was to move closer to the parent and simply make eye contact, in a non-judgemental way.  I hope my facial expression said, how can I help?  In this case, I didn’t actually say anything, because just the eye contact, the human contact, was enough to cause the parent to realize that they were making a mistake that they didn’t intend to make, and she self-corrected.  If she hadn’t I might have asked if I could help….