Confessions of a #Autism Dad: Sometimes I really miss my son

Something happened the other day that I haven't written about until now because I was kinda struggling with it.  Sometimes, I need to sorts process things before I write about them and other times writing about them is how I process things . It's no secret that I have been emotionally struggling with this whole Gavin thing. I know that moving Gavin out of the house was the right thing to do.  In fact, if anything, we waited too long to move him out. Having said that, just because it was the right thing to do, doesn't mean that it was by any means an eay thing to do. To be honest, this was probably one of the most difficult things I've ever had to do.  It was certainly one…

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Best seats in the house

I meant to share this earlier today but my site crashed again. :-( For the first few minutes of the movie, we had the theater to ourselves.... Emmett has decided that we need a TV as big as the screen.  Alright Emmett, that's my boy.  :-) This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos. I know how to spell but auto-correct hates me.  ;-) For more ways to help the Lost and Tired family, please visit Help the Lost and Tired Family.

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Victory at the movies

We took the boys to see the movie Rise of The Guardians.  Tickets were like one dollar a piece and the seating isn't as comfortable but the movie was magical. Emmett and I saw it a few months ago but Lizze and Elliott hadn't seen yet.  The boys loved it. Lizze loved it. Fun was had by all. :-) This was a complete success and definitely helped the whole cabin fever. The boys even sat through the entire movie and part of the credits. Those of you with kids of the autism spectrum know much of a victory this was.  :-) This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos. I know how to spell but auto-correct hates me. …

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Sammy has a new home :-)

Sammy has found a new home this afternoon,  with a really nice younger couple.  We have accomplished or mission of find the twins a home with a better fit.  :-) This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos. I know how to spell but auto-correct hates me.  ;-) For more ways to help the Lost and Tired family, please visit Help the Lost and Tired Family.

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Coping with cabin fever

We've decided to take the boys to see a movie at the dollar movies.  We've all been pinned in the house for almost two weeks now and we're driving each other friggin crazy. Sometimes we have to just force ourselves to do something in order to keep moving forward. This site is managed via WordPress for Android, courtesy of the @SamsungMobileUS Galaxy Note 2 by @Tmobile. Please forgive any typos. I know how to spell but auto-correct hates me.  ;-) For more ways to help the Lost and Tired family, please visit Help the Lost and Tired Family.

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#Autism, #Anxiety and Indecision

One of the most frustrating things for both me and my kids alike is their struggle with making decisions. It's like they don't trust that they can make a good choice.  We've learned that we can't ask any open ended questions without causing them undo stress and anxiety.  I can't ask "what do you want for dinner?"  That question will result in the inevitable meltdown because it leave things to open ended and with too many possible choices.  Instead, I need to ask something like "do you want chicken for dinner?"  That is a simple one answer question.  This gets frustrating for me because it seems to make everything take so much longer.  You folks ever deal with this type on anxiety driven indecision? This site is managed via WordPress…

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Stir Crazy

Today is one of those really bad pain days for Lizze.  The boys are in a mood because they are still sick. They're  doing the best they can but having autism and being sick is not a fun combination. We haven't been out of the house in over a week, so everyone is going a bit stir crazy. It's going to be a really long day.    

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Instead of #Autism Awareness we need #Autism Action

One of the things that I have found overwhelmingly frustrating over the past few years is this constant push for Autism Awareness. Don't get me wrong, it's an important thing and I push for it myself. Having said that, I don't know about you, but I'm getting tired of awareness and would really like to see some action. It's time to put your money where your mouth is. It's time to stop talking the talk and start walking the walk. Awareness is really important but it's just not enough to really help anyone.  It feels more like lipservice anymore.  It's become so commercialized and like Christmas, it's lost its meaning, at least in my opinion. There are so many things that we can do as both members of society in…

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