I mentioned that Emmett was in the ER again last night but never elaborated... Emmett and I have this thing.  We play a game where we take turns getting each other's nose,  ears ect..  I used this as a fun way for him to learn the parts of the body.  I figured that this could help him when something hurts in the sense that he could tell us where he hurts now. So the other boys have gotten in on this and of course it's gotten a bit out of hand.  Anyway,  Emmett was sneaking up behind me so he could get my butt. One of the things his brothers have added to the game.  As he was about to do this I turned around and grabbed his hands.  I…

Good morning everyone. I trust or at least hope this Monday finds you all doing well. Something I have been wanting to talk about and get a better feel for was how you all deal with this particular issue. Now this may not apply to everyone but I would think at least someone out there is dealing with something similar, so I thought it would be helpful to broach the subject. As the title suggests, this post is about Autism. Health Issues and Missed School. To be more specific, I want to discuss how to juggle these often conflicting issues and get an idea about how others are coping with this. Does that make sense? Recently, Emmett began it guess what is considered pre-preschool. Basically, he's to young for preschool…

Emmett finally returned to school this morning.  It was a long time coming and he's finally back in school..... Although he almost didn't make it.  Emmett had a late night trip to Akron Children's Hospital ER. I'll post about the ER trip later.... For now,  he is back in school this morning and excited to be with his friends...  ;-) - Lost and Tired Posted by Wordpress for Android via Samsungs Epic Touch 4G (provided to me at no charge by Sprint) without the use of proper editing tools and disadvantages of a bastardized version of auto-correct. So please forgive the spelling ;-) Please Vote for Lost and Tired (just click the link) and help me spread Autism Awareness. Everyone can Vote once a day :)

We had to go to my parents house for a minute and I needed Emmett to get dressed.  He was willing to get dressed only if he was able to wear his Lighting McQueen PJ pants.  So we choose to celebrate the fact that he was willing to get dressed as apposed to his choice of clothing. Sometimes it's all about perspective and celebrating the little victories in life.  - Lost and Tired Posted by Wordpress for Android via Samsungs Epic Touch 4G (provided to me at no charge by Sprint) without the use of proper editing tools and disadvantages of a bastardized version of auto-correct. So please forgive the spelling ;-) Please Vote for Lost and Tired (just click the link) and help me spread Autism Awareness. Everyone can…

I have really been struggling to try and keep up with everything in my life.  I have realized that I have simply taken on more than I'm able to handle.  I have decided to reevaluate things and re-prioritize everything.  I think that it's better to take on less but do better than taking on to much and failing across the board. I wish I could just do everything I would like to but I honestly just don't have the time or the energy.  I want to be able to keep up with this blog better and have even more time for the boys than I already do.  The house desperately needs some of my attention as well.  There is also yard work that needs done before the winter. As Lizze's…

Emmett loves to help out whenever he can.  I really like to encourage this whenever possible, even when it creates more work for me.......or Cleo in this case. This is the best way I have found to help foster independence in my kids. Allowing them to help,  especially when they really want to,  gives them hands on experience and a sense of pride and accomplishment. The other thing that allowing my kids to help out has done is provide an avenue for connection building.  Many times my kids can get sorta lost in their own little world.  By working with them like this,  I have found that it helps to build a stronger connection and that's very important to me. What sort of things do your kids like to help…

We finally broke down and bought locks for our refrigerator.  We have fallen about it many times but never really did anything about it.  The reason we finally decided to pull the trigger on this is because Emmett just won't stay out of the refrigerator.  As he has many food allergies,  we can't let him get into something that could make him sick.  These locks were easy to install and cost less than $5 at Walmart. So far they have worked out pretty well.  However,  I'm not sure it will be long before Emmett figures out how to open the locks.  He's quite intuitive that way. Either way,  they are working for right now and so if you are thinking about doing the same thing,  I would say go for…

I have mentioned before that I think animals can have such a positive impact on children with Autism.  They seem to form a very deep connection with special needs kids in general.  I honestly don't know how this bond is formed,  especially when connecting with other people is such a struggle at times for some kids on the spectrum. I wanted to share a picture with you all today of just how this appears at times. Gavin had another massive meltdown this morning.  Something to do with Legos is my best guess.  Sometimes I don't know why we are having a meltdown in the first place as Gavin can't always articulate his feelings. So Gavin is having this meltdown and the entire time Maggie is sitting there with him.  It's…