I couldn’t be prouder

I want to remind all the parents out there to never lose hope. This will be very short and I feel like the picture says it all.

My kids have been in a charter school for kids on the spectrum, since kindergarten. The idea of mainstreaming seemed scary and frankly, impossible at times. I always pushed the idea aside thinking I was doing what was best for my kids. I genuinely felt I was doing what was best.

Fast forward to Elliott’s sophomore year at the charter school and he became the target of bullying that was relentless and not handled well by the school at first.

He decided that he wanted to transfer high schools, more than 3/4 of the way through the year. I wasn’t very comfortable with it but the alternative was leaving him where he was and that wasn’t an option. Terrified, I agreed and we made the switch. I was so scared because I know how awful kids could be, especially to the new kid.

We’re more than a month into this move and it was the best decision ever. He’s now thriving in the largest high-school in our area. He went from 60 kids in his entire high school to over 1,200 kids and he’s doing great.

Never underestimate our kids. They are stronger, more resilient, and can accomplish anything with a little support.

The picture above is so important to me because it’s a reminder of just how far Elliott has come. He’s such an amazing human, brave, stubborn, kind, compassionate, and full of empathy for others. I could not be prouder of all he is. ☺ ♥

Rob Gorski

Full time, work from home single Dad to my 3 amazing boys. Oh...and creator fo this blog. :-)
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Well done, I’m glad your courageous choice paid off. I’ve had a down day where I just feel so alone and sad as my son is so misunderstood and excluded/bullied by everyone it seems and I just feel so sad and angry about it all thinking it will never change and I have to find a way to get out of my depression because of the unfairness of it all. This story gives me hope. Your love has made all the difference to your sons. I hope you all feel better soon.


Good for Elliott! When my oldest (non-diagnosed with autism at the time) went to high school there was bullying. However, once my son was taller and bigger than most everyone it tapered off. Teachers weren’t able to referee the kids all the time. I wish someone had caught that he was autistic back then, as by the time we all knew I believe certain things were baked into Jacob’s coping skills. But he does work full time and even in food service, and has the best customer service skills! Quite an accomplishment. Plus he’s writing a book so that is awesome too.

Curtis G.

I went through same situation with my son when he was in high school. I’m so glad for your son in finding a better school for him to thrive and grow.