We have been having an ever increasing problem with Gavin wetting the bed at night.  To be honest, he wets himself during the day as well. The problem is that he has very little sense of personal hygiene.  This means that unless we become aware of the accident,  he will simply continue wearing the same clothes or sleeping on the same bed sheets. Last night,  Elliott and Gavin had a sleep over in Gavin's room. Elliott camped out on the crib mattress.  However,  Gavin tried to make Elliott more comfortable by covering the mattress with some of his blankets. When I checked on Elliott before bed,  I was hit in the face by the smell.  When I walked over to Elliott,  he had one of Gavin's blankets wrapped around his…

I mentioned last night that Emmett was spending the night at Lizze's parents house. Well, he actually stayed the night. Lizze and I actually got to sleep last night. I got up with Gavin and Elliott and let her sleep in. Hopefully Lizze will be feeling a little better today. :-) Posted from WordPress for Android

Hey everyone. I believe I might have mentioned this before but I have been consulting with some folks who are in the final stages of developing a product that can help families with children on the Autism Spectrum that wander.  Their product is a GPS device that is made specifically for Autistic kids and has some features designed to significantly increase the odds of a fast recovery. Right now they are hoping to talk with the parents of kids on the Spectrum that either wander or have a potential to wander so they can get your feedback and opinion before their product specs are finalized. They want this device to be everything you need and nothing you don't. I believe they are really onto something and I am asking you,…

Lizze's parents have once again come through to give us a desperately needed break.  This time they have taken Emmett for the night. The trick is to get him to actually stay the night.  He usually calls asking if he can come home and we of course tell him he can always come home. Having said that,  we really need Emmett to stay the night.  He is a huge source of stress right now,  not only for Lizze and I but for Elliott and Gavin as well.  Emmett is in a very weird place right now and is very aggressive and has become quite the little bully,  especially towards Elliott. I love Emmett to death and actually miss him while he's away,  but he needs a break as much as…

The Lost and Tired family van was stolen right in front of me and my 3 boys on the Autism Spectrum.  The past 2 weeks have been very difficult as many of our plan have once again been put on hold because we had to literally dumping every last dime we had into replacing our van that had been totaled out. The boys have been profoundly affected by this experience and honestly,  so have Lizze and I. I'm happy to say that while the impacts of this event will continue to affect us both financially and emotionally,  I have finalized the purchase of our new van.  Downtown Ford had basically given us the van before we actually paid for it.  I dropped off the checks today and our plates were…

Last night was a rough night for everyone.  Emmett didn't sleep and Elliott was up at about 3am this morning. Then there was the visitors.  I'm laying in bed and it sounded like cats were running around in the attic. It was so loud that Maggie kept waking up and running around trying to find the noise. I'm pretty sure it's squirrels and not cats but it's a problem nonetheless. I'll need to find an exterminator pretty quick before the boys notice the noise. Posted from WordPress for Android

We have been struggling for awhile now to get Elliott sleeping on his own.  Most of the time he ends up in our bed.  This eventually leads to me moving to the couch because our mattress is uncomfortable enough on its own and Emmett likes his space. However,  one thing I managed to get done with tax return before literally dumping everything into this van was by the kids new mattresses.  The goal was to get Emmett and Elliott bunk beds but that will have to wait till next tax return now. However,  I setup one of the new mattress sets in our room for Emmett and so far he's enjoying it. With that said,  however,  he's still climbing into bed with us. On the plus side,  instead of going…

My kids have everything been in rare form all day.  I mentioned earlier about Emmett starting another flare up.  Gavin is being....actually Gavin is doing pretty well,  all things considered. Elliott on the other hand is just an emotional mess. He cries at the drop of a hat and is generally more difficult to keep moving.  I don't know how to really helpful him but I'm really hoping the Zoloft helps to ease his anxiety because this little boy is just a bit higher strung lately. I think I would die,  I would just literally die,  if I could say "please go get ready for bed" and it actually happened.  Instead,  I have to remind Gavin because he forgot what he was supposed to do before he made it to…