Gavin's health, both mental and physical has been going downhill for many, many years. We have seen countless doctors and specialists, in a bid to do everything humanly possible to help him. Unfortunately, we've reached a point where there isn't much more that can be done. Right now, we are currently dealing with him being in the middle of a psychotic break. He's on the hardest of the hard-core anti-psychotic medications and mood stabilizers. There isn't really anywhere left to go, as his doses are currently close to the max. Lizze and I have talked about trying to have him admitted to the psych unit again, for the purposes of stabilization. Truthfully, that's not really an option because Gavin is a chronic case and not acute. Things at home are…

I really tried to like Windows 8.  This is the first Windows release that I didn't work on as a technical tester for Microsoft.  Windows 8 is just not user friendly, especially on a non-touch device.  Perhaps I would have a different opinion if I had a Surface Pro but I don't.  Windows 8 just makes my computer to cumbersome.  I've decided to break up with Windows 8 and get back together with my old flame, Windows 7. :-) This site is managed almost exclusively via WordPress for Android. Please forgive any typos as autocorrect HATES me. ;-) Follow @Lost_and_Tired Visit the My Autism Help Forums To reach me via email, please Contact Me

Remember how our house got shot up and my neighbors car window blown out a few weeks back? This just showed up in my yard this morning. It appears to be a C02 canister for whatever has been firing small metal balls at high velocity into our house, as well as that of my neighbors. The really scary part is that these people are aiming for windows. The tiny metal balls being fired, actually buried themselves into the side of my house, during the last round. Now I'm no firearms expert, but I'd say that's powerful enough to cause serious harm to anyone hit. Crap like this is o e of the reasons we rarely let the kids play outside in the yard.  It only takes one time and far…

I just finished reading Gavin's apology letters to both Lizze and Elliott. You can read a few posts back to learn why this was necessary.  Anyway, he actually did a really good job. Lizze is sleeping right now so he can't give it to her.  However, Elliott is wide awake and very appreciative of the letter he received. I really like this consequence and I think we will employ it going forward. Hopefully, it will force Gavin to think about his actions and maybe even help him to make better choices in the future.  Fingers crossed...... This site is managed almost exclusively via WordPress for Android. Please forgive any typos as autocorrect HATES me. ;-) Follow @Lost_and_Tired Visit the My Autism Help Forums To reach me via email, please Contact Me

This happens all the time to special needs parents.  You at a store with your special needs child and they are having a rough day. Out of nowhere, a patron walks up to you and tells you how to discipline your child.  How do you react? In a perfect world, what would you really, really want to say or do to this person? This site is managed almost exclusively via WordPress for Android. Please forgive any typos as autocorrect HATES me. ;-) Follow @Lost_and_Tired Visit the My Autism Help Forums To reach me via email, please Contact Me

I saw a young mother with her daughter today. At first, I was one of “those people” that I hated when Gavin was born. The people who judged me because I was young and single. As if that equated, stupid and unloving. That’s not what struck me though…

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Ever since this whole CPS thing went down, I have been hesitant to be as honest as I used to.  While being investigated by Child Protective Services was far from pleasant, the CPS workers were.  We were treated with respect and at no time did I feel like they were being dishonest.  I feel like the more honest I am, the bigger the target I simultaneously paint on my back. The last thing in the world I need is more visits by CPS as a result of someone "trying to help". There are things that I haven't shared out of fear that someone won't understand or agree and decide to make an anonymous call. It's sad but we just can't absorb anymore. This whole thing has taken a big toll…