Hey sleep deprived #Autism Parents, what would you do in this situation? 

Lizze and I are getting a small break this afternoon because the boys are going to a cousins graduation party with their grandparents. Our goal is to go to functions more often but at this point, we’re both exhausted.  

I’ve barely been able to keep my eyes open all day and I’m certainly not in a position to drive anywhere.  

It’s really tough to find some semblance of balance because straight up exhaustion is a seemingly insurmountable problem, that’s a constant in our lives.  

Lizze and I are far from the only parents facing this type of problem. I’d love to hear how other or parents handle situations like this.  

If there was a family function and you had a choice between going as a family or staying home and going to sleep, while your kiddos went with their grandparents, what would you do and why? 



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  • L.

    Our little one doesn’t tolerate being away from home for things like that, so we have people come to us by hosting the event, or we just don’t go. We have lost plenty of friends over this, but are doing the best thing for him right now.

    • I’m sorry but I also totally understand.. Thank you for sharing.

  • Moe

    I thought you said the boys were sleeping through the the night now?

    • I’m confused. Your question has nothing to do with this post.

      • Moe

        Yes it does. If the boys are sleeping through the night how are still sleep deprived?

        • You’re reading into things again. At no point did I say I was asleep deprived. Please try to stay on topic

          • mindfulmom

            Rob
            You state above that you and Lizzie are both exhausted and titled the entry “sleep deprived parents”.
            You further state you can “barely keep your eyes open” (due to the exhaustion). The above commenter was not off topic.
            Yikes…

            • Actually, I said “Hey Sleep Deprived Parents”.. I was reaching out to sleep deprived Autism parents.

              As for the rest,” I can barely keep my eyes open” and referring to be exhausted has nothing to do with sleep. My kids run me ragged and even if I slept 10 hours a night, I would still be exhausted.

              I never said anything about me not sleeping and I was simply not allowing anyone to put words in my mouth.

              There are a handful of commentors that seem to thrive on twisting what I said or making bold assumptions. The comment or in question is one of 3 or 4 that frequent this site and like to do that.

              Frankly, I’m tired of it. They drive traffic and that’s great but I won’t let someone put words in my mouth.

              Yikes… 😉

    • You realize that even if I could sleep 10 or 12 hours of sleep per night, the boys still run me ragged throughout the day, causing exhaustion. Ask any other parent and they will likely understand.