I'm currently in the worst pain I've experienced in the better part of a decade and my boys are driving me crazy. While I'm more grateful than words can express that Emmett has found his voice, why couldn't it have been his inside voice? Collectively, they are screaming and fighting but Emmett is by far the  loudest and the he has to climb all over me.  I'm so tired and every time I look away, a little bit more of my sanity sneaks away. I'm pretty sure that I don't have much left.  :-( This site is managed almost exclusively from my Samsung Galaxy Note 3. Please forgive any typos as auto-correct HATES me. ;-) Follow @Lost_and_Tired "Like" me on Facebook Visit the My Autism Help Forums To reach me via email, please…

I'm pleased to share that my boys all had a great day at school today.  Since Emmett's been Gome, he's been freaking out on and off, for various reasons.  What would be really nice is to have a super quite and extra relaxing evening tonight.  Perhaps some family time that doesn't require me to have to move.... Anyway, great work today boys.  Your mother and I are very proud of you.  Keep us the great work.  :-) This site is managed almost exclusively from my Samsung Galaxy Note 3. Please forgive any typos as auto-correct HATES me. ;-) Follow @Lost_and_Tired "Like" me on Facebook Visit the My Autism Help Forums To reach me via email, please Contact Me

According to Gavin, he had a pretty massive meltdown or tantrum at school yesterday.  The juries still out on which it was however, due to this being triggered by frustration,  I'm leaning towards meltdown. Apparently, Gavin got so frustrated in Math class that he had to leave the classroom and get a drink.  Once in the hallway, his meltdown was so loud and intense that the principal heard him, from his office on the first floor and got involved in calming him down.  I'm waiting to hear back from the school on what actually happened.  He disrupted the other classrooms and probably frightened some of the other students as well.  We spoke with Gavin about this and explained that this was not okay and that we need to find better…

I wanted to share what I think is a really interesting teaching approach that Elliott's teachers are taking with homework. The sad reality is that many parents at our school aren't super involved with their kids education. Elliott's teacher, in an effort to get the parents involved, has changed the approach to homework in a way that I find fascinating.  Instead of the typical nightly homework assignments, she has introduced Project Based Learning. Essentially what happens is the child does a simple research project that requires the assistance of their parents.  This is such a cool idea because it's never too early to introduce research skills and it's always good to have the kids working with their parents.  One of these projects are assigned each month and they have the…

Lizze went to Elliott's IEP meeting alone because I was unable to walk. I know this sound crazy but I love going to our kids IEP meetings.  Our experience with Summit Academy Schools has always been positive when it comes to IEP's. For me, it's a chance to learn about my kids and better understand what their individual educational needs are.  I truly wish all of you could have this IEP experience because I know how badly they can go in other schools.  I know what our experience was with the Canton City School System and nightmare doesn't quite do it justice. What did we learn about Elliott today? We learned that Elliott is loved by his teachers and is the model of good behavior.  We also learned just how…

I wanted to share with you Gavin's latest work of art.  This piece is a blueprint of sorts. He is designing his next Lego masterpiece, The Golden Bladecycle. You know, I really hope Gavin pursues this path in life because he has a talent and he really seems to enjoy doing these types of things.  Good work Gavin..  I can't wait to see this turn into a Lego creation. :-) This site is managed almost exclusively from my Samsung Galaxy Note 3. Please forgive any typos as auto-correct HATES me. ;-) Follow @Lost_and_Tired "Like" me on Facebook Visit the My Autism Help Forums To reach me via email, please Contact Me

I've literally been down all day and that means that Lizze has had to do all the things I normally do.  That may not seem like a big deal but there is a very good reason she wasn't doing them anymore. She handled the IEP meeting this morning and did a great job. This isn't downtime isn't something that I'm enjoying. While I can deal with the pain, my legs keep (the left one in particular) giving out.  I have no control over that.  It's like my body is physically enforcing limitations on the rest of me.  I have an L5/S1 left sided herniation.  The pain was supposed to go away inside of six months but that was 12 years ago.  There is a genetic component to this because my…

As you may or may not know, I suffered a major back I jury in 2001. The injury requires surgery to fix and because of how complicated our lives are, surgery was a risk I wouldn't take.  I simply played through the pain. I did so for over 10 years.  I can't begin to describe the amount of pain I was in for so long, except to say that I experienced some pretty dark times and it got to the point that I wanted to end my life.  When I began about 2 years ago, I finally experienced relief.  I've been doing pretty well since.  This past weekend, I knelt down to take a picture with my grandmother, while at my Dad's surprise birthday party.  That was all it took…