I’m worried that Gavin’s begun cracking at the seams

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I’m not having a good night.  I’ve struggled with technical issues in regards to this blog, all day. I’ve given up for now because I have a really challenging day ahead of me and I need to focus my energies elsewhere.

Gavin’s really begun to struggle.  He’s getting frustrated over ridiculous things. They seem ridiculous to me but clearly they aren’t to him.

Here’s an example of something that happened yesterday that set him off.

Gavin wanted to heat up chicken pattie’s for dinner.  That’s no problem and he can do that on his own.  He put them in the toaster oven all by himself.  When the timer went off, he carefully took them out and made his sandwiches.

He asked to eat in his room and we had no issues with that at all.

A few minutes later, he came downstairs upset because his sandwiches were still cold in the middle.  I suggested that he stick them in the microwave for 30 seconds and see if that helped.

He did that and when they came out, they were still a bit cold in the middle.  This caused him to get really upset and start freaking out, which is uncommon for him anymore.

I tried to calm him down and told him to just stick it back in the microwave for another 30 seconds.

I’m not sure if that ever happened because we found on the floor of the kitchen crying.  I spoke with him about why he was upset and he didn’t want to have to put his dinner back into the microwave a second time.

We eventually resolved the situation but not before Gavin experiencing significant distress.

I suggested that if he wanted to avoid this in the future that he could check to make sure they were warm enough before making them into sandwiches.

Anyway, we got his chicken pattie’s warmed up and he ate his dinner in his room like he had wanted to.

I have no idea where this all came from.

The only thing I can think of is that his current emotional state is beginning to take its toll on him.  Based on previous psychotic breaks, as the situation worsened, he would begin to crack at the seams. I certainly can’t blame him for that.



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  • Erica Milam

    Is very self-aware, regarding his hallucinations? Do the hallucinations happen in “real time” and he remembers them, or are they delusions that he discusses with you later? I knew a girl who had and I’m hoping to educate myself — and gain compassionate insight. Sorry if too many questions. I have but don’t know very much about schizophrenia/schizoaffective disorder.

    • Erica,

      Your questions are great. Let me see if I have a good answer.

      I don’t know and I’ve never thought about whether his hallucinations are in real time or not. That’s a really good question. I believe they are in real time and when he’s done, he eventually tells us about them.

      Gavin is aware that having these hallucinations are not a good thing but he’s happy. So I guess he’s self aware in that regard.

      Great questions… Does that answer your questions.? .. ☺