My heart breaks for Jacob Hall and his family

I’ve been following the story of six year old Jacob Hall. Little Jacob passed away after a teenager shot up Townville Elementary in South Carolina. Jacob passed away on Saturday after suffering complications due to the massive blood loss from the gunshot wound.

My heart broke when I saw the news of Jacob’s passing.

I don’t know him or his but he very much reminds me of my youngest, Emmett. I couldn’t prevent my mind from taking me to a place where every parent goes after seeing something like this. We imagine what it would feel like, had that been our child.

It’s a natural human response and it’s one of those things where we can almost feel the pain these parents must be going through.
As a paramedic, I’ve experienced the death of children and truthfully, it’s one of the reasons I no longer do that job. I’ve been around death many times but when it comes to kids, it takes on new meaning, especially after I had children of my own.

Maybe that’s why I’m so heartbroken over Jacob’s death? Maybe it’s the simple fact that an innocent child has lost his life and a family has lost a child. This isn’t supposed to happen and this should never have happened.

This could have happened at any one of our schools. This could have happened to any one of our children. When is enough going to be enough? When will we stop bickering over things that don’t matter and instead, work together to put an end to these tragedies?

My kids are with their Grandparents tonight. While we desperately need the break, I’m wishing they were back home so I could just watch them sleep for minute, knowing they were safe and sound.

We’ve been working with Emmett because he’s struggling when it comes to sleeping in his own bed. As uncomfortable as it can be when he climbs into our bed and wraps himself around me, I don’t think I’ll ever complain about that again.

I wrote some about this whole thing on my fan page and I wanted to share it here as well. Before I do that I just want to say that my heart, go out to Jacob and his family. What they are going through is unimaginable and I pray they find peace.

Folks, please stop what you’re doing and go check on your kids. If they’re sleeping, tuck them in one more time. If they’re not, give them a hug and tell them how much you love them. Never take a moment for granted because you never know what tomorrow will bring.

My heart is broken tonight for Jacob Hall and his family.  Please, we have to do better as a society. I’m in tears because this little boy looks very much like my youngest and I can’t even begin to imagine what this family is going through and for what?



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  • truth. it’s easy to blame the parents. I don’t know the situation of the shooter beyond what I have read. But it sounds like a lot of people let him down in his young life. That doesn’t excuse what he did. Not by a long shot.

    But everyone is now saying “we should have done more.”

    It shouldn’t be this way. If someone needs help they should be able to get it.

    we shouldn’t have to do more, we should already be doing everything humanly possible.

    And maybe that is what I should write about tomorrow.

    • I hope you didn’t think that’s what I was doing. I was speaking to the overall lack of parent involvement in general. I don’t know the circumstances of the shooter but as a society, we should be working together to help kids who are troubled, regardless of insurance.

      This kind of thing should never happen but until we put people first and stop making it so difficult to find help, I don’t know if anything will change.

      Thanks Carl…

    • Rob Gorski nope. never crossed my mind. but sometimes, our readers need to hear the same type of message from more than one source. 🙂 now if we could just get people who aren’t like us to read our stuff so we could have a broader impact.

  • Rob Gorski nope. never crossed my mind. but sometimes, our readers need to hear the same type of message from more than one source. 🙂 now if we could just get people who aren’t like us to read our stuff so we could have a broader impact.