I’m trying to write more often and because I’m struggling with it a bit, I’m taking requests on topics. A very common topic seems to be helping your autistic or neurodivergent child prepare for a major life change, like moving. I hope this helps. 🙂

Moving to a new house is a big deal for any family, but it can be especially difficult if your child is neurodivergent. However, you may guide your child through this adjustment with less struggle if you plan beforehand, have patience, and are understanding. Here are some helpful hints to help you with this process. Keep in mind that there is no such thing as a one size fits all kinda approach that works. This guide is meant as a general direction to go in and build from.

Start Dialog Early

Preparation is the key to smooth transitions. Early on, start a conversation with your youngster about the move. Why are you relocating, what it means, and what they can expect. Use straightforward language, and invite their questions. This early communication ensures that your child feels included in the process and enables them to gradually adjust and become more comfortable with the idea of moving.

Use Visuals

Visual tools and social stories can help children with neurodivergence learn new ideas more readily. Make a storyboard outlining each step of the moving process, from packing to settling in the new house, using pictures or sketches. Your youngster can better visualize and become accustomed to the impending shift if you include images of their new bedroom, school, and neighborhood.

Maintain your routine

For neurodivergent kids, routine and predictability offers solace and a sense of control. Maintain your child’s daily routine as much as you can. To keep their favorite toys, books, or comforts close by throughout the transfer, pack a separate bag. Comfort in the known helps lessen fear of the unknown. Does that make sense?

Include your child

Participating your child in minor moving duties might be good as well. If you’ve hired a moving company like MoveMBS.com, you can browse their site together and familiarize them with the process. This will help them know what to expect and could probably fall into the use visuals section. They can help with packing, selecting what to take with them, and planning how to set up their new room. They feel in charge and a part of the process because of this.

Visit the New Home Together

Visit the new home or apartment with your child before moving day, if at all possible. Allow them to explore their new surroundings and point out notable landmarks, parks, and other interesting places. This can lessen some of their anxiety about the relocation by helping them develop anticipation and excitement.

Include your child

Participating your child in minor moving duties might be good as well. They can help with packing, selecting what to take with them, and planning how to set up their new room. They feel in charge and a part of the process because of this.

Following the Move: Patience and Comprehension

A change requires time. Maintain as much of the former routine as you can after the move. Let your kid talk about how much they miss the old house. Be understanding and encouraging, assuring them that it’s normal to feel anxious. Your child will adjust to their new surroundings gradually.

Ask for Assistance

Don’t be afraid to ask other parents who have had similar experiences for help. A plethora of shared knowledge and advice may be found on blogs and online forums. Local support groups can be helpful as well, putting you in touch with relatives who are familiar with your particular difficulties.

Moving can be overwhelming, especially for neurodivergent children. If you need help with the logistics of the actual move, click here. But keep in mind that change is a natural element of life and can spur development. Your patience, understanding, and support as parents can help your child adjust more easily and successfully. In time, your new house will eventually grow to be just as cozy and cherished as the old one. This move marks the beginning of your family’s next big journey, not merely a change of address.

Expect there to be a period of adjustment, and perhaps some behavioral challenges along the way. Just remember that change is hard for our neurodivergent kiddos but taking the time to prepare them in advance can make the process a lot easier for everyone.