Gavin’s new IVIG supplies arrived

You know something? When you're a special needs parent, it's really important to find joy in the little things.  It's been a pretty good day today and that's awesome.  The highlight of my day thus far was Gavin's new IVIG supplies arriving sorta on time. They should've been here last week but they're here now and that's what matters.  The really exciting part is that we received the shorter tubing so we can knock these infusions out in less than 30 minutes.  Even at the current time of 2 hours, it just seems to really be a lot for Gavin.  If we can get these done in 15 or 20 minutes, that would be awesome for Gavin. 😀 Sometimes it's the little things in life that make the biggest impact.…

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It’s been a pretty productive morning 

After all the drama this morning with Emmett, his shoes and going to school, I really was hoping to walk. Unfortunately, it was raining and I'm not quite that hardcore yet.  I've been writing, folding laundry and even had a conference call about a new project I'm working on with my good friend Joel Manzer from Autisable. I've got two baskets of laundry that I would really like to get folded before the boys get home from school today. I'm feeling like that's a pretty reasonable request of myself and I fully intend on completing it.  That will be some more progress and a great way to start the week off on the right foot.    

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We had a massive meltdown this morning 

This morning was nothing but one gigantic meltdown and I think I already spent my ration of energy for the day. 😫 Emmett was so upset this morning because he had a tummy ache and didn't want to go to school.     The reality is that his tummy ache is anxiety because he is so anxious about everything in his life. He genuinely loves school and isn't getting picked on or anything like that.  Part of the issue this morning was his shoes and socks.  They just didn't feel right and by the time I was able to fix that, we were already 15 minutes late for school.  Emmett was also worried because he has to take his shoes off at Martial Arts and putting them back on, isn't something…

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This new rule in @the_autism_dad household will hopefully make a positive impact

I've made the decision to adopt a relatively major change to the way I've been doing things in our house.  Starting today, all screens (TV, tablets, laptops etc) will be turned off at 6pm. This rule applies to the boys because I need access to my phone and so have to work but the idea is to end the day without the use of screen time.. The only exception is that Elliott will use his tablet to listen to music at night and Emmett will watch an episode of something on Netflix before falling asleep.     The music is a positive thing but I'm hoping to slowly reduce the need of TV at bedtime for Emmett.  He really doesn't even watch it, it's essentially background noise and it lights up…

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This was a pleasant diversion 

We had a pretty fun afternoon. The boys and I went to visit my parents for a little bit today. We were able to hang out and watch the Browns lose to the Raiders. 😕 It was just a nice little diversion for the day and a pleasant change of scenery for everyone.  I picked up pizza on the way home because that's all the boys will eat in their school lunches. Now we're just sorta chilling out and having a nice quiet evening at home. 😀 It's been a pretty awesome day...    

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Feeling hella motivated today

I woke up today and was dead tired because I was up with Emmett last night. He was super clingy last night and I didn't sleep well at all.  The boys let me sneak a short nap in before lunch and I'm feeling really good.  I'm taking on the laundry today as well as vacuuming everything that is vacuum-able. 👍 The reason this important is because I haven't felt motivated like this in a long time. I don't think that I'll question it but instead ride the motivated scooter as long as possible.  It feels really good to be making progress in my life.  As stupid as it may seem, I also feel like I'm improving the boys lives as well by tackling the house and making it a more…

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I think poor Emmett might have an ear infection 

Without dwelling on the massively challenging evening we had, I suspect I know what was behind Emmett's irritability.  About 2 hours after I tucked him in for the night, he came down the steps and looked like he's was going to burst into tears. He climbed onto the couch with me and I noticed he was pulling at his ear.    I don't think he was fully awake because when I asked him if something was hurting him, he sorta mumbled yes and started fussing a bit before he feel back asleep on chest.  My guess is that he may have an ear infection.  I had been thinking that he was hitting a fever flare because he was having a really, really rough night and that typically means that a…

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Just a quick update

I'm really trying to keep up with my writing but it's not going so well. I've not been finding that motivation comes easy right now.  It's probably a lot to do with depression and maybe a little bit of feeling overwhelmed by life lately.     The reason writing is so important for me is because it helps me process my life and sorta maintain perspective.  Anymore, the idea of plunking down my thoughts and feelings just seems too hard.  I'm going to be really trying to get caught up on my writing because there's so much I have to say and it's just building up.  Here's to the free flow of my thoughts going forward.  😀

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