EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS RELATIVE: If you’re a special needs parent, please read and share this

I want to be straight up and completely real here for a minute. Not that I do anything but that anyway. 😉

I love hearing from my readers, be it here or on Facebook etc. Two of the things that I get asked quite a bit are the following.

How in the world do I maintain my sanity? How do I not run out of patience with my kids and their challenging behavior?

These questions are using preempted by something like, I only have one child with or SPD or or and I struggle.

   

Something that’s really important to understand is that every single situation is different. Everyone is facing unique challenges and we all have different thresholds for things.

I don’t have any type of super power that prevents me from losing my mind while raising three boys with Autism, ADHD, Anxiety and on my own as a single . I’m just as human as the next person and I have my limits as well.

The thing with me is that I work very hard at understanding my limits, recognizing them and whenever possible, removing myself from the equation for a brief period of time when I feel myself reaching that threshold. That’s really the biggest trick in my arsenal.

Writing about everything the way I do really helps as well. It’s helps me to process everything, regain perspective and feel like I’m making something positive come out of a very challenging situation.

The other thing to keep in mind is that I’ve been doing this for a very long time. It’ll be 15 years as a parent pretty soon.

I honestly don’t remember anything else.

I don’t remember what it’s like to not have to struggle with everything. I don’t even know what it’s like to cook one meal for breakfast, lunch or dinner and have everyone be able to eat it. As it stands, I typically prepare at least three different meals in order to feed everyone and often have to remake something over and over because of slight imperfections.

I don’t know what it’s like to be able to get the kids dressed and off to without having a major delay or meltdown due to how their clothes feel on their skin, especially .

People on the outside feel as though I exaggerate this stuff but hand to God, this and more happens every single day.



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