I met with the school over my concern with Common Core math and I’m not sure what happened

As I try to bring everyone up to speed on the goings on with my family, I should briefly bring this up. I mentioned prior to this weekend that I was going to be meeting with Emmett's teacher over this Common Core math situation we have been struggling with.  Going into this meeting, I'm fully aware that the school isn't to blame for this but unfortunately for them, they are the messenger and I suppose that puts them on the front lines.     That being said, I went into the school prepared to stand my ground and demand that Emmett not be forced to learn this bizarre way of doing math. In many ways I did what I set out to do but I don't think I accomplished what I…

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I think poor Emmett might have an ear infection 

Without dwelling on the massively challenging evening we had, I suspect I know what was behind Emmett's irritability.  About 2 hours after I tucked him in for the night, he came down the steps and looked like he's was going to burst into tears. He climbed onto the couch with me and I noticed he was pulling at his ear.    I don't think he was fully awake because when I asked him if something was hurting him, he sorta mumbled yes and started fussing a bit before he feel back asleep on chest.  My guess is that he may have an ear infection.  I had been thinking that he was hitting a fever flare because he was having a really, really rough night and that typically means that a…

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Just a quick update

I'm really trying to keep up with my writing but it's not going so well. I've not been finding that motivation comes easy right now.  It's probably a lot to do with depression and maybe a little bit of feeling overwhelmed by life lately.     The reason writing is so important for me is because it helps me process my life and sorta maintain perspective.  Anymore, the idea of plunking down my thoughts and feelings just seems too hard.  I'm going to be really trying to get caught up on my writing because there's so much I have to say and it's just building up.  Here's to the free flow of my thoughts going forward.  😀

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The boys and I have been having a pretty great day :)

It's been a low key kinda day here in The Autism Dad household. Emmett was up pretty early but the boys let me sneak in a short nap, so it all worked out.  We've been working on a video game together recently and we spent some time digging into that before capping off the afternoon with a trip to the playground.  Everyone had fun and we only had a few Autism/anxiety issues along the way.  I would truly love to have more days like today. ❤️😀👍   

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It was an early start to the day 

It's been a pretty early start to the day.  I moved to the couch because it was cooler downstairs. That apparently sent Emmett's Spidey Sense into overdrive because he came racing done the steps to find me.    He's not going back to sleep and he also won't sit on the other couch. He has to squish himself between me and the couch.  Emmett doesn't like sitting alone for some reason and it makes for very little alone time for Daddy. lol

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I’m feeling more hopeful 

I'm really trying to get my feet underneath me again. This single Dad thing was never something I imagined ever doing. Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining because I couldn't live without my kids in my life everyday, even if they do drive me nuts.. lol Sometimes life can throw a sucker punch from somewhere in the back and knock the wind out of you. That's sorta how I feel.  Taking everything into account, I'm holding up pretty well. The boys are dealing with a ton of shit right now but they're treading water on most days and sometimes they even make their way closer to shore.     That's a very positive thing and I try to always keep that in mind. 👍 I've been feeling pretty good lately.…

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Taking on the school over Common Core and standing up for my kiddos with #Autism

It was a tough morning as evidenced by this being my first post of the day. lol Emmett was not wanting to go to school again and didn't even want to try  putting his shoes on. It took a little while but I convinced him to let me try and we finally got them and feeling acceptable.  Fast forward past my morning workout and Gavin's IVIG infusion.  I'm now waiting to go into thto school, pick up the boys and have a meeting about this Common Core nonsense that freaking my kids out and making my head want to explode.     The goal here is to make every effort to ensure my kids can learn the way that they need to, in order to be as successful as they can…

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I finally made a very difficult decision in regards to my son with #Autism

When you are raising a child with Autism, there are so many things you must do and even more decisions that must made. Many of these decisions are far from easy and end up not actually having a right or wrong answer.     One of the biggest battles in regards to raising children with Autism, is easily their education. Trying to navigate the convoluted educational system is not for the faint of heart. All too often, it's ill equipped to deal with kids on the Autism Spectrum and parents must literally fight for every last thing their child needs. I've had to make many decisions over the years in regards to my kids education.  Of all those decisions, none have been as difficult as the one I've had to make…

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