Read more about the article I’ve learned to never underestimate my kids ability to overcome
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I’ve learned to never underestimate my kids ability to overcome

Today began the transition back to school after the holidays. This used to stress me out because more often than not, it was a nightmare scenario. Kids on the spectrum do not like change. Many years were spent trying to navigate transitions like this and it wasn't fun for anyone. Thankfully, it's gotten much better. My kids are so much more resilient than they used to be. While there are some anxiety related hiccups, such as Emmett not sleeping last night, the transitions have become little bumps in the road than a ten car pile-up. I'm so grateful for that. If you're reading this and still dealing with some of these issues, please know that it does get better. I won't promise that it will be a cake walk and…

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January 4, 2022
Read more about the article My kids were right and I was wrong
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My kids were right and I was wrong

So apparently my kids were correct. I was positive that they were back to school this morning but turns out, they don't go back until January 4th. I don't know what sorta of nonsense this is but I declare shenanigans. I'm thrilled to have had all this time with my kids but I'm ready to get things back to normal and move forward with my 2022 plans. They will be returning to school tomorrow and I will be able to start building my new routine. Work is picking up and I'm committed to being at the gym five days a week. That's important and I'm making it a priority. I'll be forcing myself into a new schedule and I'm going to more tightly manage my time during the day. I…

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January 4, 2022
Read more about the article My life has changed in so many ways
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My life has changed in so many ways

The boys spent New Years day with their mom and I had plans of my own. We're keeping the circle of people we spend time with very, very small right now as COVID is worse than it's ever been in Ohio. Half of my family either has COVID right now or is getting over it. Everyone is staying away from everyone else right now, just to be safe. My circle is small and comprised of people closest to me. Every one is taking all the necessary precautions, including, limited public exposure, mask wearing and COVID vaccinations. That's just the way it is right now. New Years was great. We spent some time making vision boards on New Years Eve with the kids. They did such a good job and I…

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January 2, 2022
Read more about the article Let’s talk about how tough Christmas can be for autism families
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Let’s talk about how tough Christmas can be for autism families

I've had a pretty great week. I've been job hunting, which is exciting, and it feels good. I'm looking to fill in some of the gaps while building my business. I need to gain some lost ground, and this will help. There are some pretty great opportunities that I might qualify for, and they're remote. That's a perfect fit, especially with COVID. This is a big move for me, but it's the right one, at least for right now. I should add that I'm exceptionally grateful for all the love and support I have in my life. I wouldn't have made it this far or had the courage to explore new opportunities if I didn't have that. The boys are ready for Christmas to be over with. I've talked about…

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December 24, 2021
Read more about the article The Top 5 Best Ways To Significantly Improve Your Vision In 2022
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The Top 5 Best Ways To Significantly Improve Your Vision In 2022

With the worldwide coronavirus pandemic far from over, thankfully, if there has been one good thing that has come out of the enforced lockdowns and other social and communicative restrictions, it is the rise and increase in popularity of self-care techniques. In the modern world, everyone’s daily schedule is always packed full of duties, roles, and responsibilities which are often more for other people, and often there seems little time in the day to take care of yourself. One major health concern that is always an issue, especially as people get older, is the strength and quality of their vision so here, for your information, are the top five best ways to significantly improve your vision in 2022. Photo by Victor Freitas on Pexels.com Look Into Cataract Surgery  If you…

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December 23, 2021
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Tips For Fostering An Autistic Child

Being a foster parent is always going to be challenging. The children you look after will come from a variety of backgrounds and they will have been through different things to have put them in the foster care system. Understanding this and being kind, caring, and compassionate is crucial. However, what would happen if the child you needed to take care of was autistic? How would that change things? Of course, you would still want to care for them in the same way, but this might not be possible; children with autism may need a different kind of care, depending on their individual needs. Photo by Sharon McCutcheon on Pexels.com Foster parents who go on to foster autistic children will need specialist training, and ideally, they will need experience of…

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December 14, 2021
Read more about the article An emotionally exhausting level of personal growth this week
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An emotionally exhausting level of personal growth this week

It's been a long, emotional couple of days for me and I'm exhausted but feeling better. Sometimes personal growth can be a bit more challenging and it forces me outside of my comfort zone. While it can be unpleasant in the surrounding moments and take some adjustment on my part, it's ultimately a good thing. This is especially true when learning to navigate new things for the first time. I'm a big fan of personal growth and sometimes it can be uncomfortable but it makes me a better person in the end. I know the people in my life deserve the best I have to offer. I woke up today feeling really good and highly motivated to keep pushing forward with what I know I can do. I have people…

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December 9, 2021
Read more about the article You’re not a bad parent and here’s why
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You’re not a bad parent and here’s why

Parenting is hard. There are no two ways about it. Parenting kids with unique challenges like autism, ADHD, anxiety, mental illness, or other physical/emotional disability can be even more complicated. I've been a parent for over two decades now, and I'm still learning. My parenting experience is mainly special needs in nature but believe it or not; there is some overlap with more typical parenting. Also, we should acknowledge that some people are terrible parents. That's just the way it is. That being said, the overwhelming majority of parents out there are so much more amazing then they give themselves credit for. As parents, we have the best of intentions, and while none of us are perfect, we strive to give our kids the best lives we possibly can. Sometimes,…

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December 7, 2021