“10 Things That Special Needs Parents Wished You Knew”
This post is dedicated to all the special needs parents of the world. We live a very challenging life and it’s very difficult to help the world comprehend what we experience. My hope is that this will provide some insight.
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1.) I’m not lazy. I’m just completely exhausted from years of sleep deprivation because when my child doesn’t sleep, I don’t sleep and they don’t sleep.
2.) I know my house is a mess, I don’t need to be reminded. It’s because I spend every single minute of every single day trying to help my child make it through the day.
3.) I would really like to accept your invitation to go out but finding a sitter for a special needs child is very difficult, if not impossible.
4.) My child is not a brat and I am not a bad parent. It’s called a meltdown and it’s not a disciplinary issue.
5.) If I wanted your advice, I would have asked for it.
6.) No. My life doesn’t suck because I have a special needs child. Yes, it’s challenging but also richly rewarding in ways that otherwise wouldn’t be possible.
7.) I will rarely ask for help but that doesn’t mean I don’t need it.
8.) Yes, my life is challenging but I can still be a good friend and I’m worth getting to know.
9.) Telling me that my child just needs to be spanked is a really good way to make me angry and you wouldn’t like me when I’m angry…Grrrr
10.) When my child is having a meltdown in public, you can help by keeping your rude comments to yourself and instead showing me your understanding smile.