I’m way too petered out to be doing this today

I'm feeling pretty petered out today. The appointment this morning with Emmett and then being up really late with Gavin, has just killed me.   In a little bit, I'm going to have to run to the grocery store because I'm assuming we're all going to want to eat dinner tonight.  If I don't go, I'm not sure that will be possible..  lol Gavin will probably want to go with me and I totally appreciate his wanting to help but I'm not sure I'll be able to deal with his nonstop talking. I'm definitely not up to talking a out his tablet let games right now.   That being said, I want to encourage his desire to help out and learn more about interacting with society because that will only…

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The dentist didn’t go so well but Emmett was super brave

We just arrived home from today's dental thing with Emmett.  Big thanks to my Mom for watching the other two boys for us.  That was a huge help, especially with how this appointment ended up going.   Let me start by saying how brave Emmett was because he really was brave.   When we first went back, it was too much for him and he lost it.  We're talking massive, massive meltdown.  He was terrified and there was no consoling him.  All we could do was hold his hands and reassure him that things were going to be okay.  When it came to getting prepped, he had to be held down to be numbed up and once that was done, he handled everything else like a champ.  ☺  The doctor…

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Dear God, Please let this go well

We arrived at the dentist and Emmett's tummy is upset.  He says he's not nervous but I think it's probably nerves.   We got hit with a big detour but we ended making it a few minutes early anyway.  I thought for sure we were going to be late but we still made good time.   I'm really hoping that this is a quick procedure because Emmett's not appearing to be in a good place to cope with a great deal of stress.  

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All things considered I’m doing alright

I'm dragging today because I've only had about one hour of sleep.   Being totally petered out is something that has become the status quo. It's safe to say that I'm far from the only Autism parent who's petered out because their kids don't sleep at night.   Considering the facts, I feel like I'm doing pretty good today.  For starters, I'm staying awake and I'm in a really good mood. While it's possible the good mood is due to the fact that I'm delirious at this point, a good mood is a good mood... ☺   

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An end to a pretty good day 

It's been one of those days where the weather sucks and money's tight, so we're limited to what we can do.  We've gotten a few things accomplished but nothing super ambitious. ☺  There was also some of the same old same old as well.   We had a few meltdowns because Emmett's snuggling a bit with life and Elliott had a few of his own as well.  Gavin's been sorta been living in his delusional world and fighting bad guys for most of the day.  He's happy but stressed out because I guess it's not always going so well for him and his visibly challenged band of super best friends.  The boys played with the ferrets and of course, that's always fun.  We even built a new house for the…

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What do you struggle to keep in stock in your home? For us it’s toilet paper

This may seem like a silly question but I think it will be interesting to see the various differences across households. Sometimes these things are related to Autism and other times they aren't.   In my household, we can't seem to keep toilet paper in the house.   We use Cottonelle toilet paper because it can be used as a paper towel in a pinch.  For some reason though, we just can't keep that in stock.  Part of the problem is related to Autism because the boys have a routine as far as the bathroom goes and go through a tremendous amount.  Often times it's needless because they aren't actually using the bathroom, they just think they need to and compulsively follow through on their routine.   Is there something…

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Believe it or not, Monday and I are getting along today

I'm feeling pretty good today.  It's beautiful outside, the kids are mostly having a good day and there's not much to get done today.   For the first time in a little while, I'm feeling pretty chill. I mean, there are a great many things I'm worried about but my anxieties seem to be in check and I'm focusing more on the things I have control over st the moment.   I had a good night's sleep and maybe that helped.  That doesn't happen very often so it's sorta hard to know if that's impacting things right now or not.   We only have two places to be today.  Our Dr. Pattie appointment for this Wednesday was moved to today at 4pm and Lizze sees her psychiatrist to touch base…

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This meltdown brought to by……  

There are a great many things about being a parent to children with Autism that can be tough.  That being said, I think we could probably mostly agree that meltdowns would at least be towards the top of the list, if not the top of the list itself.   We had a doozy of a meltdown this morning and you'll never guess what it was over.  Chopsticks...  Both Elliott and Emmett came home with chopsticks yesterday. Many of you are probably already cringing and others won't understand why this is such a problem.  Let me say it like this..  Chopsticks are frustrating for people who are actually coordinated enough to use them.  I got frustrated trying to learn how to use them so I could teach Emmett.  Giving a child…

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