The boys have dinner with their Mom tonight

The boys will be going to dinner with their Mom and Grandma tonight.. They do every other Wednesday dinners and they fall on the weeks opposite of their every other Friday over-night stays with their Mom.  It doesn't give me a lot of time to myself but it is a tiny little break. More importantly however, it's a chance for them to spend some time with their Mom.  I'm not a bitter person and I believe it's important crucial for the boys to have a happy and healthy relationship with their Mom.  This is a far from ideal situation and one that I would have never chosen for myself and the kids.  Some things however, are outside of one's control and all you can do is find the positive, pick…

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Guess who couldn’t sleep last night

It doesn't take much to throw off the routine of a child with Autism.  What throws them off doesn't have to be a bad thing either.  It could be something as positive as a birthday party,  trip to the movies or even getting to spend the night with their Mother.  Emmett is probably the most sensitive to these changes and it usually manifests itself in a disruption of his sleep cycle.  Last night was one such night for Mr. Emmett.  He was unable to fall asleep last night and after a solid attempt on his part,  he ended up downstairs on the couch, snuggling me.

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Tonight’s transition was a rough one

The transition has been a rough one. The boys had a good visit with their Mom and that's something that's important to me but the transition is always a challenge. One of the biggest challenges for me is their schedule. As an example,  the boys come home around 5pm without having eaten dinner.  They are used to eating around 4pm and so they are already anxious about the time. Their Mom has a pretty good argument because the boys eat pretty much nonstop throughout the afternoon and aren't really hungry for dinner. That's pretty reasonable... ☺ The problem is with Gavin in particular. He's extremely ridged in his schedule and tends to freak out when there is a deviation. Even if Gavin's not hungry because he's been eating all day, …

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How did the boys overnight visitation go?

The boys just got home from their every other weekend, overnight stay with their Mom. For the past year,  these visits have been very difficult for them,  especially where Elliott is concerned. That being said,  the visits have recently made a turn for the better and that's a really good feeling. Today it seems to have gone well once again. That doesn't mean there are difficulties with transition but that's to be expected and is pretty much out of everyone's control. The boys are home and it's good to have them home.  The transition is rough but it's good to have them home. ☺

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The boys visitation with their Mom was positive overall but the boys are still struggling

The boys got home about 4 hours ago. They were visiting their Mom and from the sounds of it, things went pretty well. The boys are decompressing still and have been pretty moody this afternoon. There has been some fighting between the E's and it's not been a super pleasant afternoon. Elliott's crying at the drop of the hat and Emmett's melting down over everything.      These guys seem to have had a good visit but they are still struggling a bit with the transition home. Gavin's been talking nonstop about video games and has been extremely impulsive. That's not all that uncommon for him but his impulsiveness has been causing some minor upsets in our house this afternoon.  He's trying and that's what I'm focusing on... Maybe we'll…

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All my boys are home again :)

All the boys are home once again and while I'm glad to have my family whole, I'm nursing a wicked headache. The boys are sorta ramped up for some reason and being very loud. 😳 It's nice to have Gavin home again but he's already talking nonstop and that's not helping my head..  God love him though because he wants to help the moment he walks into the house and won't stop asking until I give him something to do.  T-minus one hour until bedtime and a quiet house. 👍😁❤️   

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Tonight’s visitation has been a disaster once again :(

Is it a full moon or something?  Emmett refused to go visit his Mom today and I don't think that's ever happened. Elliott was excited to go visit his Mom and I don't think that's ever happened either. I don't know what's going in with Emmett but I do know that he doesn't want to talk about it. If push, he freaks out and the reason he does give doesn't seem very plausible.     Sadly, I didn't get my Chipotle burrito tonight and that sucks because I worked really hard during the week and that was going to be my reward. Instead of my one on one date with a huge burrito, Emmett and I had dinner together. It was nice and I never get to spend one on one…

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