Category: Divorce



It’s been a month and a half since my 16 year marriage ended and here’s how I’m holding up

People keep asking how I’m doing with everything going on in my life. I know what they’re asking, without really asking and I truly appreciate the concern. I thought it would be easier to just put a short update together, rather than continue to answer individual questions. It’s been about a month and a half …

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I thought I’d share some important goals I’ve set for myself as we rebuild our lives

Things have been a bit heavy lately and so I thought I would change things up a bit and talk about some of the goals I’m setting for myself going forward. First and foremost, my main goal is to keep the kids above water until they can swim on their own. That goes without saying, …

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I realized something that has profoundly changed the way I look at and feel about my pending #divorce

If I were in some way able to change the past and make it so none of this had ever happened, that would come at a price that I’m unwilling to pay.


Today brings a significant change to the boys visitation with their Mom

The reason there was hesitation about this wasn’t anything personal at all, it’s simply because the kid do not do well with change. This will throw off their schedule they’ve gotten used to over the last year and a half.


Divorce: I think I’m finally getting to a good place

I feel like I’ve reached a milestone in regards to my divorce


#Autism and #Divorce: My son won’t sleep for 36 hours or more after a visitation

Divorce is proving to be getting harder on my kids with #Autism as time goes on. Here’s what is happening that has me worried 😓