The notion of special needs parents having kids with sleep issues isn’t far-fetched at all. I deal with this more times than I care to remember.
As any special needs parent will tell you, we don’t sleep if they don’t sleep.
Tonight is another one of those night for me, and this makes the second or third time this week. I’m once again waiting up with one of my kids and the hour is pushing 2 am.
When kids with Autism can’t sleep, it’s not something that’s easy to overcome. There could be a million reasons for them not sleeping and figuring out what the problem is can be next to impossible.
We’ve used a natural sleep aide called Melatonin for years but lately it seems to no longer be working.
Tonight I’m up with my middle kiddo Elliott.
I’ve been keeping an eye on him while Lizze and I were watching TV. One of the methods we have employed is the use of our Vivint cameras. Some people freak out over things like that, but for a parent with a child on the Autism Spectrum, cameras can be an amazing tool. It’s not about invading privacy; it’s about not being able to be in more than one place at a time.
Kids on the spectrum have a tendency to wander and get into things. Getting hurt or lost is of real concern for many parents.
I’m not spying on my kids, but the cameras notify me of movement in a specified time frame. It’s, for this reason, I knew Elliott was having a hard time falling asleep.
For some reason, he’s been unable to fall asleep and the more conventional methods of trying to help have failed. He tried a warm bath, a snack, back scratching, music and even TV but nothings helping.
As a last ditch effort to secure at least some sleep for both Elliott and myself, I employed the only thing that I know will work but comes at a price.
Camping out on the couches in the living room is what I resort to when all else fails. For whatever reason, moving him to the couch in the living room helps him to fall asleep. This is a last ditch effort because it means I have to sleep on the other couch and that’s not always good for my back.
I also don’t want this becoming a habit, but as Dr. Pattie tells us all the time, you have to do what you have to do to sleep. If that means sleeping on the floor next to their bed or camping out in the living room, so be it. It’s a greater good thing.
I have to ask myself if I’m better off not sleeping at all or sleeping in the living room… I already don’t get enough sleep and so I can justify moving to the living room to salvage as much sleep for myself and whoever isn’t sleeping that night as I can.