While I utilize this blog to help support my family, I do that by helping others. Not everyone appreciates what I do here and that's okay because it's probably not for them. The people that I'm doing this for, will largely remain silent because nothing needs to be said. Many times though, people will reach out privately and ask for help or share how reading my blog has helped them. Sometimes they want to share their experience but aren't comfortable doing it in the comments. Sometimes the comments here can be kinda rough and while it annoys me, it discourages others from speaking up. This morning I received an email from a parent who's dealing with what will likely be a two year old, newly diagnosed kiddo. They're worried, stressed…

I wanted to take a few minutes and to say a few things about the terrorist attack that our fellow countrymen in New York endured yesterday. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all those impacted by this act of cowardice, especially those who lost their lives and their families. What happened was an example of how cruel and evil human beings can be to one another. At the same time, it's an amazing testament to how brave and strong the people of New York are. The first responders did an amazing job of neutralizing the threat and securing the area to ensure everyone's safety, with no thought of their own. We all owe them a debt of gratitude, so thank you from the bottom of my heart. To all…

Update: I misread this woman's profile and it turns out she's not Autistic. My apologies for that. I misunderstood her profile and based on her attack, I incorrectly assumed she was an Autistic adult, attacking me in the way I've been attacked many times before. I shouldn't have assumed and I apologize for that. The principle of this post still stands. We all need to treat each the way we want to be treated. Parents and Adult Autistics should be on the same team. We all bring things to the table and can learn from each other. Being a parent isn't easy, especially when you're a neurotypical parent to a child with Autism. While I can't speak for everyone, I can say with the utmost confidence, that most Autism parents…

It's not easy to explain how anxious I am tonight. I'm anxious because I haven't yet received Gavin's lab results from yesterday. This doesn't necessarily mean anything good or bad, they just haven't gotten them back yet. As a special needs parent, it seems like there's always something to worry about. Special needs kids can be so complex and their respective conditions can make life extremely complicated. There's always something to worry about because there's literally so many things that can go wrong at any given time. I'll be the first to admit that I'm guilty of waiting for the other shoe to drop but it's not because I'm negative. It's because there's always another shoe to worry about. I've spoken with countless special needs parents over the years and…