We have an insanely busy week planned

The boys only have three days of school this week before Christmas break begins. Lizze and I have to finish up some last minute shopping but upon further review, we don't actually have that much left. We have quite a bit going in this week as well.  The boys have therapy. We have family therapy and marriage counseling as well. We have the boys Christmas program at school. Elliott has the dentist and Lizze has a doctor's appointment also.  We also have our rescheduled Vivint installation as well because the tech became ill last week and wasn't able to make it out here. As Christmas gets closer and closer, the boys become more and more anxious. This is a really difficult time for them because the anticipation and excitement is…

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#Autism Parenting Victory: Everyone is asleep in their own beds

The boys went to bed without much trouble. We welcomed bedtime because the boys were more than a handful since they came home. We tried to have a calm night but that didn't seem to work. Thankfully, they are all sleeping now and doing so in their own beds. Awesome sauce.... ☺  Lizze and I started watching The OA on Netflix. That's a crazy new series that's part mind fuck and part fascinating enough that you have to keep going.  I think we're gonna try to get to bed early tonight because it's been a long day and we have a busy week ahead of us. 

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Our kids have returned but how are they doing? 

The boys have been home for a little while now and seem to have settled back into their routine. For the most part, everyone's in a good mood but some of us are pushing buttons.  By some of us I'm referring to Elliott.   I think part of the problem is that he's overstimulated and what we are seeing is very much a kid with ADHD, Autism and almost no impulse control. This isn't unheard of after a visit to his grandparents or anyone else for that matter and it has nothing to do with them. It's just sorta par for the course with kids like mine.   Emmett's been doing pretty well and so has Gavin. Although truthfully, Gavin's been talking nonstop and OMG is that exhausting already.  While…

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#Autism Parenting: What’s the point of getting a break? 

The boys are on their way home, while Lizze and I are just starting our day. We have lots of sleep under our belt and are feeling pretty good right now.  I've no idea what the boys are going to be like when they return but I feel like we're in a much better place to handle whatever comes our way. That's sorta the whole point of a break for us.  It's not really about getting ahead. It's about gathering the strength and courage to keep fighting the good fight. 

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My son with #Autism needs everything to match. Does yours? 

I woke up to the boys fighting this morning. Emmett was freaking out because he needs everything in his life to match and when it doesn't, he panics and melts down.  This mornings disaster was caused because Elliott had been playing the Xbox for about an hour, while Emmett had only played for about half that amount of time. That was simply the way it worked out.  Emmett began to get really upset because the times didn't match. He wanted to play the exact number of minutes needed to match Elliott's time but that wasn't possible at the time. This led to a pretty shitty start to the day a massive meltdown.   All of Emmett's life, he's had to have things match. Christmas presents, pizza slices, how much drink…

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Gavin continues to regress and it’s horrible to witness 

This will be a good news - bad news entry but I'll begin with the good news.☺  The good news is that since Gavin's peeing blood situation earlier in the week, there hasn't been anymore instances of this happening again. Assuming it happened in the first place, perhaps it was a one off kinda thing and we won't see this again.  That's really the end of the good news for now but you have to admit, not peeing blood anymore is definitely a good thing.   Unfortunately, the rest of what I have to share is of a sad and even heartbreaking nature. 🙁  Gavin's been very mission oriented lately and that means he's continuing to lose touch with reality. Almost every morning this week, Gavin has rushed off to…

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We received some bad news

I really like to focus on the positive side of things but sometimes, life just sucks. No matter how it's painted or candy coated, there's no escaping the gravitational pull of this dense ball of negative shit. If I don't talk about this stuff then you don't have a true image of what our lives are like or the challenges we face while we're going through everything else. With that in mind, I'll share the shitty day I've had.  There were quite a few littler things that hit us today but the single biggest thing is that we lost the dispute with our bank over the $500+ in unauthorized transactions. It was two transactions and they found that no error was made. We've appealed but it's gonna take another two…

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Having some upgrades to our @VivintHome system today

I'm pretty excited because we're having so equipment upgrades to our Vivint Smarthome. My house gets automatic upgrades when updated equipment comes out so I can both test, review and then share my experience. Today, we're being upgraded to the Nest thermostat and Amazon Echo integration. The boys are excited about the Echo and I'm excited about both. Once I've had a chance to play with these upgrades, I'll share some pictures and thoughts. In the grand scheme of things, it's not a huge deal but I'm really proud of this partnership and since I love tech, it's something I really look forward to. ☺

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