This is kinda weird

We learned something today from Gavin, that seems sorta strange. He made it a point to tell Lizze while I was gone, and then me while we were dropping off the boys lunches.

Gavin informed us that he has been taking showers while he’s hanging out with my parents on Wednesdays while the boys are in school.

It’s not so much that he takes a shower at my parents house, cause that’s not a big deal at all. It’s more about the way he talked about it. He said that he asks if he can take a shower and they let him. Again, not a big deal and my parents aren’t doing anything wrong.

What’s weird about it is he doesn’t need a shower. He does that at home and there’s no reason for him to be asking to take one.

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Gavin wasn’t feeling well

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A place for kids with life threatening health conditions

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Is this the start of concerning behavioral problems?

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A MAJOR Gavin update

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A major update about everything

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This might be bad news, I’m not sure yet

Gavin spent the day with my Mom yesterday. Apparently, Gavin was experiencing some things that were concerning to him, and my Mom decided to sorta make a journal to keep track. It's entirely possible that these are unrelated to anything in particular. The list of his physical complaints included the following: Back pain Problems with his vision Leg pain (I think) There's more I believe but my brain is currently in overload and I can't remember the rest. It's really difficult to know what's what. These could all be random occurrences, and end up being nothing, or maybe they are signs of other things. None of what he was dealing with were new. Strictly speaking, these have all happened before. I'll get into more detail in the morning. For now,…

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