Divorce: I need to clear a few things up

I’m really, really tired and so please forgive any typos you may come across.

I wanted to take a few minutes and make a statement something that’s been brought to my attention. 

A number of my readers have been reaching out via comments, email or social media out of concern. 

It seems that they have been reading things that the boys Mother is saying in regards to me.  I understand that there may be others involved in this as well.

Here’s the deal….

Look, I absolutely appreciate the concern.  I truly do. It’s nice to know that people care enough to be concerned. 

I have no access to any of these things because I’ve been banned or blocked.  I’m pretty sure it the same for my as well because I would have heard about it from them as well.

The truth is, I don’t care. 

I don’t care what may or may not be said by her or her friends/family.  I just don’t and neither should you. 

It’s simply not worth it. 

I actually spoke to her about this today and explained what people are saying.  I also told her the same thing I said above.  I don’t care what’s said about me. 

She asked me to point out that while it may seem like she’s talking about me, she’s not. Personally, I’m not sure how far that scooter will carry her but again, I don’t care. 


If I cared what people thought about me, I would have closed up shop after my first batch of hate mail, during my early writing days.  lol

Everyone chooses his or her own path in life. 

I’ve chosen to handle things the way I am and I stand firmly behind my approach.  It’s not always easy but I feel it’s the right thing to do. 

I have no control over someone else’s words or actions. 

All I can control is how I carry myself and the example I set for my kids. I’m also trying to be an example for other people going through something similar. 

So the bottom line is this.

Just ignore whatever you read because that’s what I do.  I can’t focus on moving forward if I cling to things like this.. I know it’s frustrating to read but it’s just not worth it. 

I’m not angry or upset because I know who I am and what I have and haven’t done.  That’s all that matters…

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Not knowing what she did or didnt say…. you comment on your all of the time and I’m sure she has friends and that get upset at some of the things you write.

I would think you need to afford her the same luxury.

Jimmy Rock
Not an attack here, just a question: what was the point of you talking to her about it if you honestly don’t care what she’s saying? I have no idea what the subject matter is, but there might be very good reasons to care about it, whether because you think it might negatively affect the boys in some way, etc. For your readers who either know you, your ex-wife, or the subject matter of what’s going on here, your position on this might be a little easier to grasp. But not having that knowledge, I’m just going to say some… Read more »
Alyssa Rogers Williams

Jimmy’s last two sentences nailed much more succinctly my point I was trying to make . smile

Alyssa Rogers Williams
I just now saw this post and appreciate your clarification on the issue. And you’re spot on….people’s perceptions are honestly based on what they themselves are reading from what the writers/bloggers are presenting. And I personally think you show incredible restraint in your careful choice of verbiage when explaining something that has of necessity to include the other party. That’s just factually unreciprocated. You know, all readers have to construct a scenario on what to interpret and glean from the writings, blogs and comments. I have been one of the readers to read Lost and Tired, all of Lizze’s old… Read more »
Rob Gorski

Shoot me an email when you get a second please… I appreciate it…

Alyssa Rogers Williams

Rob, just saw this in my Disqus notifications, not on much. My email is temporarily just GONE, noticed not receiving from 3:26am the 14th (have small business account with AT&T. Ive been traveling non-stop w/daughter back to back weekends for her tennis, Houston, Austin and these last days a National in Overland Park, KS, finally a chance to play catch up tonight. I have a backup, please feel free to email me there until whatever madness gets fixed: