The kids are gone and here’s an important update

The kids are gone and here’s an important update

We had a little change to the visitation this weekend.  The holidays tend to throw things off kilter a little bit but it’s not a huge deal. 

Rather than going over Friday to Saturday, it’s Saturday to Sunday. 

I’ve not had a Saturday night to myself, at least that I can remember, in a really long time.  Unfortunately, I don’t have anything to really do with it but catch up on some shows and eat some pizza. 


Now for the update.

I want to put this out there because while there are things that I’m upset about, I know that Lizze loves the boys.  I never question that.

While we don’t see eye to eye on things and often times can remember the same thing very differently, there’s no malice. 

I pulled the post from last night about Elliott’s EEG because after rereading it, I didn’t like the way I presented part of it.  I was exhausted and frustrated. 

I have no problems admitting that I feel that I worded some if it poorly and it didn’t convey what I was trying to say well. 

There will never be a day that I agree with anything my wife has done. I stand by that. There are a great many things that both upset me, frustrate me and frankly, break my heart. 

That said, I never question that Lizze loves the kids.  Everything is different than it used to be and sometimes that makes it harder but I don’t think that anything that’s gone on was done with the intention of hurting or upsetting the kids.  Me maybe but the kids no. 

I didn’t mean to insinuate that.

Anyone that’s gone through a divorce knows that it’s a very difficult process, especially for the ones blindsided and left behind. 

This was a tough week for me but we’ve talked things out.  It’s a process and there’s going to be ups and downs.  This happens to be a down week but we’ve both agreed to make this coming year better than the last and move forward.  Baby steps. 

That doesn’t mean I don’t have concerns because I do but it’s always better to remain civil, especially for the kids.  The boys are never aware of anything like because I go to great lengths to isolate my feelings. 

Anyway, I just wanted to put this out there because I reread the post for the first time this evening and I felt it wasn’t making the point I was trying to make.  There were something that I worded poorly and while I standby my concerns, it’s also important that I present things as accurately as possible.

I’m going to eventually revise it and republish.  Hopefully, I’ll be able to better convey my feelings. 

That’s all.. 

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