This #Autism Dad is not coping well with the incessant talking today

There are so many things that can be frustrating and/or overwhelming when it comes to being an Autism/Special Needs Parent. Most of them are things that I’ve had to learn to either ignore or cope with in some other way. If I didn’t, I’d lose my mind.

I have days where I can cope fairly well but there are also days that I seriously struggle.

On any given day, one of the hardest things for me to cope with is incessant talking. I’m fully aware that many parents have never heard their child talk and I have some experience in that arena with Emmett. My heart goes out to them. I’m not intending to be insensitive to that and I’m incredibly grateful that my kids are verbal.

The reality I live in with Gavin is such that he talks and talks and talks and talks. It’s incessant and it wears me down. That’s just the reality.

Gavin does this in a few different ways but the two I struggle with most are when he talks about his tablet games and when he compulsively verbalizes every thought that pops into his head.

Rob Gorski

Full time, work from home single Dad to my 3 amazing boys. Oh...and creator fo this blog. :-)
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What if you open Notepad on a computer and ask him to type all his thoughts there so you can read them later? (Even if you don’t.) Or is he a talker who likes to hear himself talk and think you care about what he’s saying too?

With Alex, we call it “narrating his life”. And it doesn’t always stop when he is asleep.


This may be crazy but have you tried a blown up picture of you that Gavin could talk to?