What Are You So Scared Of?

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It sad to say but the harsh truth of living in the modern world is that most of us live our lives in fear. That might sound kind of dramatic but you can see it all of the time. You see people who get trapped in the kind of life that they never wanted and doesn’t make them happy but they put up with it because the idea of something else brings with it the fear of things going wrong and a lot of people really would rather put up with an unhappy life than take that risk. However, that’s not the way to create the life that you really want. With that in mind, here are some ways that it might be time to change your life.

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Your career

The most common place in which a lot of people find themselves feeling frustrated and unhappy in their life is almost certainly their career. Plenty of us end up in jobs that we swore would just be a temporary thing but then life got in the way and we needed the money and before you know it you’re completely stuck with seemingly no way out. The key is to figure out what it is that you want out of your career. What is it that your current job isn’t providing you. Do you want to be doing something more worthwhile? There are plenty of online RN to BSN programs that can help you get into a career where you’d actually be helping people. Or perhaps you just want something more engaging. The truth is that there are always careers out there, you just need to know what you want.     


Relationships are tough, and a lot of the time they’re made even tougher because of the expectations set out for us by the media that we consume. People assume that their relationship is going to be something out of a movie and when reality kicks in it can be really upsetting. The key is to try and keep your expectations in check. A great relationship can be wonderful but it’s not going to magically solve all of your problems, that’s way too much to put on a single person. Of course, if you are in a relationship that is genuinely unhappy then often the very best thing for everyone involved is for you both to simply walk away from the relationship altogether.

Now, I don’t want you to think that any of this is supposed to be easy, it definitely is not. After all, if it was easy then it’s something that everyone would be happy to do all of the time. The truth is that making changes in your life, even positive ones can be incredibly tiring and incredibly scary. The risk of things going wrong is there but the truth is that fortune favors the bold and you’re never going to get the life you want unless you do the scary thing and go out and get it.


Rob Gorski

Full time, work from home single Dad to my 3 amazing boys. Oh...and creator fo this blog. :-)
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